Arnell Gaskins Jr.:  

Arnell is from New York, New York. Arnell's schools include Louis D. Brandeis High School. Arnell works(ed) at Department Of The United States Air Force, Usaf. Music Arnell likes includes Ashanti Official, I Love Dogs, The Notorious B.I.G.. Books Arnell likes include The Purpose Driven Life, Romance, Roots. Movies Arnell likes include No Way Out, Sparkle, Malcolm X. TV shows Arnell likes include The Game on BET, The King of Queens, Martin. One of Arnell's favorite quotes is:""Who Am I Not To Be"? "It's funny that when people are not trustworthy tell will try and flip the script and say you have TRUST ISSUES when the fact is they have TRUTH ISSUES!!!" ~ Arnell Gaskins Jr "Life is so much simpler when you tell the truth." ~ Unknown 1. Don't promise when you're happy. 2. Don't reply when you're angry. 3. Don't decide when you're sad! "Sometimes the dreams that come true are the dreams you never knew you had." ~ Unknown "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~ Unknown "The way you see your spouse is indicative of the way you'll treat him/her today. Is it good, bad, or indifferent?" ~ Unknown "The best proof of love is trust. So work hard to keep it." ~ Unknown "Husbands and Wives: It's unfruitful to be awesome outside the house, and absent inside the house. Step up to the plate at home." ~ Unknown "Keep an open mind, and try to understand and accept your partner (even when his/her position might not make a lot of sense to you)." ~ Unknown "If your mate is offering ideas to remedy problems in the marriage, be grateful ideas are coming, and respond in a way to keep them flowing -- even if you don't think the idea is any good. Spouses often feel rejected because their opinions are met with criticism." ~ Unknown "Living like you're single in marriage is in congruent with your wedding vows." ~ Unknown "Give your spouse what you want yourself: a safe place to grow, a place where you can be encouraged even when you fail." ~ Unknown "Your spouse cannot fix problems he or she does not know exist. Tactfully bring up what is bothering you." ~ Unknown "The more you focus on what your spouse is doing wrong, the less you focus on what you can do right." ~ Unknown "The miracle of marriage is that two people commit to love one another, despite their differences, unconditionally like God loves them." ~ Unknown "Wives: Your husband needs your affirmation. Learn how to build your man up." ~ Unknown "Husbands: Dwell with your wife in an understanding way (1 Peter 3:7). Get to know her style, preferences, likes and dislikes, and serve her accordingly." ~ Unknown "If you have financial secrets in marriage, you're sitting on a ticking time bomb. Defuse the bomb by keeping your mate in the know." ~ Unknown "Love keeps no account of a suffered wrong. You're injuring your marriage if you're keeping score against your mate." ~ Unknown "It's natural to harden your heart towards your spouse when he/she hurts you. Ask God for His supernatural grace to stay open and reconcile with your mate." ~ Unknown "If you love your spouse you won't look for ways to cheat without getting caught, in fact, you just won't cheat at all!" ~ Unknown "Don't be surprised that your marriage has challenges. Two different people learning to be one are like sandpaper to one another. It takes time for things to smooth out." ~ Unknown "Name-calling, insults, and hateful speech bruise the soul, and don't belong in marriage. Speak to your mate as respectfully as you'd want him/her to speak to you." ~ Unknown "Forget about getting even; you'll never be able to do it to your full satisfaction anyway. Leave all vengeful affairs to God, that's His business." ~ Unknown "Do unto your spouse as you'd have your spouse do unto you." ~ Unknown "Everything done in the dark WILL come to the light. Be upright in your marriage and be an open book for your spouse to read." ~ Unknown "It's funny that when people are not trustworthy tell will try and flip the script and say you have TRUST ISSUES when the fact is they have TRUTH ISSUES!!!" ~ Arnell Gaskins Jr." "If you're married, the most important earthly relationship you can cultivate is your relationship with your mate." ~ Unknown "Wives: Don't expect your husband to "man up" if you continually emasculate him with your words, attitudes, and actions." ~ Unknown "Love the heart that hurts you, but never hurt the heart that loves you." ~ Pastor Marvin Sapp "If you tell your spouse you're going to do something, by God's grace and your effort, keep your word. That's how you build trust in your marriage." ~ Unknown "When you look for solutions in your marriage instead of an escape clause, you'll find new and creative ways to resolve conflict." ~ Unknown "Husbands: With God's help, love your wife so much that she knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that you love ...Expand for more